{"id":6985,"date":"2025-08-26T09:06:34","date_gmt":"2025-08-26T09:06:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/info-eforie.ro\/index.php\/2025\/08\/26\/rautatea-in-online-noua-regula-de-socializare-de-ce-din-spatele-tastaturii-alegem-atacul-in-locul-dialogului\/"},"modified":"2025-08-26T09:06:34","modified_gmt":"2025-08-26T09:06:34","slug":"rautatea-in-online-noua-regula-de-socializare-de-ce-din-spatele-tastaturii-alegem-atacul-in-locul-dialogului","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/info-eforie.ro\/index.php\/2025\/08\/26\/rautatea-in-online-noua-regula-de-socializare-de-ce-din-spatele-tastaturii-alegem-atacul-in-locul-dialogului\/","title":{"rendered":"R\u0103utatea \u00een online, noua regul\u0103 de socializare. De ce, din spatele tastaturii, alegem atacul \u00een locul dialogului"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p><i>De ce e at\u00e2ta r\u0103utate \u00een spa\u021biul online rom\u00e2nesc?<\/i> Un psihoterapeut explic\u0103 cum anonimatul, lipsa consecin\u021belor \u0219i validarea rapid\u0103 transform\u0103 r\u0103utatea \u0219i agresivitatea \u00eentr-un comportament obi\u0219nuit pe internet.<\/p>\n<div><picture loading=\"eager\" width=\"1400\" height=\"750\" alt=\"streamer, adolescent, laptop, internet, doarme, canapea\"><source type=\"image\/webp\"  media=\"(min-width: 1400px)\"><source type=\"image\/webp\"  media=\"(min-width: 1000px)\"><source type=\"image\/webp\"  media=\"(min-width: 700px)\"><source type=\"image\/jpeg\"  media=\"(min-width: 1400px)\"><source type=\"image\/jpeg\"  media=\"(min-width: 1000px)\"><source type=\"image\/jpeg\"  media=\"(min-width: 700px)\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.adh.reperio.news\/image-a\/a78522be-b5f9-42b5-ab5f-c401117f9b42\/index.jpeg?p=a%3D1%26co%3D1.05%26w%3D700%26h%3D750%26r%3Dcontain%26f%3Dwebp\" alt=\"streamer, adolescent, laptop, internet, doarme, canapea\" width=\"1400\" height=\"750\" loading=\"eager\"><\/picture>\n<p>Surs\u0103 foto: Shutterstock<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><i>\u201eDin spatele tastaturii e mai u\u0219or s\u0103 fii inuman dec\u00e2t uman.\u201d \u201eAnonimatul e oglinda nefiltrat\u0103 a societ\u0103\u021bii.\u201d \u201eAgresivitatea \u0219i r\u0103utatea \u00een spa\u021biul online \u00een Rom\u00e2nia au cote alarmante. N-am v\u0103zut nici un alt social media, nici m\u0103car american, cu nivelul \u0103sta.\u201d <\/i>Aceste fraze, extrase dintr-o discu\u021bie pe Reddit, <a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/economie\/prima-nota-de-plata-a-austeritatii-cum-au-2466763.html\">descriu un fenomen<\/a> care nu mai poate fi trecut cu vederea: agresivitatea \u0219i r\u0103utatea pe internet atrag mai mult aten\u021bia dec\u00e2t un argument bine construit.<\/p>\n<h2>Sarcasmul, validarea rapid\u0103 \u0219i capitalul social al r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bii<\/h2>\n<p><i>\u201eDac\u0103 zici c\u0103 e r\u0103u cancerul, o s\u0103 vin\u0103 cineva s\u0103-\u021bi explice de ce e bine pentru planet\u0103 c\u0103 bolnavii mor, c\u0103 polueaz\u0103 mai pu\u021bin\u201d<\/i>, noteaz\u0103 un utilizator. Altul consider\u0103 c\u0103 <i>\u201erom\u00e2nii sunt deja r\u0103i \u0219i ultra polariza\u021bi de propagand\u0103. Jum\u0103tate sunt suverani\u0219ti sp\u0103la\u021bi pe creier, restul sunt frustra\u021bi \u0219i nu exist\u0103 dialog.\u201d<\/i> Cineva rezum\u0103: <i>\u201eDin frustrare \u0219i limitare.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Un alt participant la discu\u021bie scrie c\u0103 <i>\u201e\u00een online ai impresia c\u0103 nimeni nu are cum s\u0103 \u0219tie cine e\u0219ti \u00een realitate \u0219i po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi spui p\u0103rerea adev\u0103rat\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi fie fric\u0103 de consecin\u021be. Aici e oglinda nefiltrat\u0103 a societ\u0103\u021bii.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Un utilizator atrage aten\u021bia asupra efectului de bul\u0103: <i>\u201eLumea a \u00eenceput s\u0103 devin\u0103 prea dependent\u0103 de ceea ce crede, \u00een sensul c\u0103 ceea ce \u0219tie este sigur corect. Dreptatea lor este cea adev\u0103rat\u0103, iar atunci c\u00e2nd vii cu o sugestie, automat e\u0219ti \u00eempotriva lor \u0219i apare hate-ul.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt, sarcasmul \u0219i ironia aduc mai mult\u0103 validare dec\u00e2t un argument bine construit. Un comentator rezum\u0103: <i>\u201eDac\u0103 zici ceva nesurprinz\u0103tor, mai bine taci, c\u0103 e\u0219ti ignorat. Ca s\u0103 contezi, trebuie s\u0103 mergi la extreme, iar extrema sigur\u0103 este extrema negativ\u0103<\/i>.\u00a0<i>Dac\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place ceva enorm (sau pretinzi c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi place) e\u0219ti vulnerabil, c\u00e2nd g\u0103se\u0219te cineva o hib\u0103 d\u0103 cu tine de p\u0103m\u00e2nt.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Dezindividualizarea \u0219i pierderea responsabilit\u0103\u021bii personale<\/h2>\n<p>Gabriela R\u0103ileanu, psiholog clinician \u0219i psihoterapeut, explic\u0103 pentru Adev\u0103rul faptul c\u0103 aceast\u0103 cultur\u0103 a agresivit\u0103\u021bii digitale are cauze precise: <i>\u201eUna dintre cele mai importante explica\u021bii pentru r\u0103sp\u00e2ndirea r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bii \u00een spa\u021biul online este legat\u0103 de specificul acestui mediu: el suspend\u0103 temporar, sau chiar elimin\u0103 complet, o serie de factori care, \u00een via\u021ba real\u0103, limiteaz\u0103 comportamentele agresive. \u00cen interac\u021biunile fa\u021b\u0103 \u00een fa\u021b\u0103, comunicarea uman\u0103 este autoreglat\u0103 de feedbackul emo\u021bional imediat: vedem expresiile celuilalt, sim\u021bim tonul vocii, observ\u0103m reac\u021biile nonverbale\u201d.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Conform spuselor sale, aceste semnale sociale activeaz\u0103 mecanisme empatice care ne ajut\u0103 s\u0103 ajust\u0103m discursul \u0219i s\u0103 ne control\u0103m impulsurile. \u00cen spa\u021biul digital, \u00eens\u0103, toate aceste elemente dispar sau sunt atenuate. <i>\u201eNu mai exist\u0103 contact vizual, nu mai sim\u021bim t\u0103cerea sau disconfortul celuilalt, nu ne mai confrunt\u0103m cu reac\u021bii emo\u021bionale directe. Iar \u00een absen\u021ba acestui feedback, barierele morale se reduc, iar reac\u021biile agresive se exprim\u0103 mai u\u0219or\u201d,<\/i> sus\u021bine ea.<\/p>\n<p>Specialista vorbe\u0219te \u0219i despre fenomenul de dezindividualizare:<i> \u201eUn rol esen\u021bial \u00eel joac\u0103 \u0219i fenomenul de dezindividualizare, un concept bine documentat \u00een psihologie. Acesta descrie o stare \u00een care individul \u00ee\u0219i pierde sentimentul de identitate personal\u0103 \u0219i responsabilitate \u00een cadrul unui grup mare sau \u00eentr-un mediu \u00een care anonimatul este prezent. Rezultatul? Comportamente care \u00een via\u021ba offline ar fi considerate inacceptabile, precum insulta, ridiculizarea sau agresiunea verbal\u0103, devin nu doar tolerate, ci uneori chiar \u00eencurajate sau aplaudate.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Pe scurt, \u00een online, atacul nu doar c\u0103 este permis, ci adesea \u00eencurajat prin reac\u021bii \u0219i validare public\u0103. <i>\u201eUnul dintre motivele pentru care comportamentele agresive sunt at\u00e2t de frecvente \u00een mediul online este absen\u021ba consecin\u021belor reale \u0219i imediate. Rareori exist\u0103 sanc\u021biuni clare sau eficiente pentru limbajul ofensator, iar mul\u021bi utilizatori simt c\u0103 pot spune orice f\u0103r\u0103 a suporta urm\u0103rile. Aceast\u0103 lips\u0103 de responsabilizare \u00eencurajeaz\u0103 impulsivitatea\u201d, <\/i>subliniaz\u0103 Gabriela R\u0103ileanu.<\/p>\n<p>Mai mult, platformele sociale transform\u0103 ironia \u00eentr-un instrument de vizibilitate.<i> \u201eSpa\u021biul online devine o oportunitate facil\u0103 de a c\u00e2\u0219tiga rapid vizibilitate, influen\u021b\u0103 sau validare. Po\u021bi construi cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103 o voce, o imagine, o identitate care s\u0103-\u021bi ofere un sentiment de putere \u0219i control. Sub forma sarcasmului, ironiei sau atacurilor directe se ascunde un mecanism de ap\u0103rare \u00eempotriva propriei nesiguran\u021be, o compensare rapid\u0103 \u0219i superficial\u0103 a inferiorit\u0103\u021bii resim\u021bite, o rec\u00e2\u0219tigare a controlului \u00eentr-o lume care altfel te face s\u0103 te sim\u021bi mic, neimportant sau invizibil\u201d,<\/i> crede ea.<\/p>\n<h2>Impactul real: anxietate, depresie \u0219i izolare<\/h2>\n<p>Un alt aspect semnalat de psihoterapeut este influen\u021ba modelelor de comunicare promovate online. <i>\u201eUn alt aspect esen\u021bial este influen\u021ba modelelor de comunicare promovate online. Unii influenceri, formatori de opinie sau creatori de con\u021binut folosesc sarcasmul \u0219i umorul acid ca stil principal de exprimare. Iar pentru tineri, care sunt \u00een plin proces de formare identitar\u0103 \u0219i caut\u0103 validare, acest tip de discurs devine normativ: este cool, e viral, aduce like-uri \u0219i aten\u021bie. Problema apare c\u00e2nd se pierde nuan\u021ba: ironia inteligent\u0103 \u0219i agresivitatea mascat\u0103 nu mai sunt diferen\u021biate, iar limbajul dur devine standardul de comunicare.\u201d<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Conform spuselor sale este necesar s\u0103 con\u0219tientiz\u0103m impactul real al agresivit\u0103\u021bii digitale, pentru c\u0103 efectele nu sunt doar virtuale. Tinerii care devin constant \u021binta sarcasmului, trolling-ului <a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/economie\/cum-se-incearca-manipularea-diasporei-pe-facebook-2466771.html\">sau ridiculiz\u0103rii online pot dezvolta anxietate<\/a>, depresie, izolare social\u0103 \u0219i o stim\u0103 de sine extrem de fragil\u0103. <i>\u201eEste nevoie de educa\u021bie emo\u021bional\u0103 timpurie, de promovarea comunic\u0103rii asertive \u0219i de crearea unor spa\u021bii sigure \u00een care tinerii s\u0103 poat\u0103 vorbi despre ce simt\u201d, <\/i>conchide psihoterapeutul.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/adevarul.ro\/stiri-interne\/societate\/rautatea-in-online-noua-regula-de-socializare-de-2467339.html\" class=\"button purchase\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De ce e at\u00e2ta r\u0103utate \u00een spa\u021biul online rom\u00e2nesc? 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